Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Lesson 3 : don’t look at the person, listens to what they say

I often saw that, whenever someone is giving an advice to people, they usually try to see the person first. If that person somehow is a professor, a doctor, a singer, an actress (maybe?), then  they will started to listens to what they have to say. Even though maybe there are some facts that’s just are made up one.

For me, I prefer just to take what everyone has to say, and then I take note of what they say, after that I try to look for the truth behind those words. Since nowadays people like to made up stories, facts, and what worse, they make it like its real.

I often confuse whether to trust or not the facts that I read in the internets. When that’s happen, I might just wait for someone who has more knowledge to crack all those things. For e.g. like the use of ‘Salam’, I has read in facebook that using only those words is haram.  It makes me thinks, for what reasons they say that it is haram to use Salam. Then they give out some phrase from Quran, but bad for them, they only translated it half way. So it does sound wrong when translated.

Em, I guess that enough for internets. What I really want to write is about people who are giving good advices, but none of them were taken just because they made some mistake, or maybe they just not popular enough, and maybe they just ordinary people, but with smart idea.

But somehow, it’s a good idea also to judge the ‘book by its cover’ right, for e.g. who really wants to take some advice from someone that is drunken or crazy. I think nobody would want that. For me, dealing with drunken people really piss me off. I don’t know where they got all the strength after being so drunk like that. Its kind of funny to remember I hang out with some friends and they got drunks. They became so annoying after that. Luckily there was no trouble at all.


p/s: I kind of notice, I often seems to talk about something else when indeed i want to write something that related to my topics. I don’t think I deliver my point. Oh well, its for my own satisfaction. Who reads this anyways,right.. 

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