Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Lesson 3 : don’t look at the person, listens to what they say

I often saw that, whenever someone is giving an advice to people, they usually try to see the person first. If that person somehow is a professor, a doctor, a singer, an actress (maybe?), then  they will started to listens to what they have to say. Even though maybe there are some facts that’s just are made up one.

For me, I prefer just to take what everyone has to say, and then I take note of what they say, after that I try to look for the truth behind those words. Since nowadays people like to made up stories, facts, and what worse, they make it like its real.

I often confuse whether to trust or not the facts that I read in the internets. When that’s happen, I might just wait for someone who has more knowledge to crack all those things. For e.g. like the use of ‘Salam’, I has read in facebook that using only those words is haram.  It makes me thinks, for what reasons they say that it is haram to use Salam. Then they give out some phrase from Quran, but bad for them, they only translated it half way. So it does sound wrong when translated.

Em, I guess that enough for internets. What I really want to write is about people who are giving good advices, but none of them were taken just because they made some mistake, or maybe they just not popular enough, and maybe they just ordinary people, but with smart idea.

But somehow, it’s a good idea also to judge the ‘book by its cover’ right, for e.g. who really wants to take some advice from someone that is drunken or crazy. I think nobody would want that. For me, dealing with drunken people really piss me off. I don’t know where they got all the strength after being so drunk like that. Its kind of funny to remember I hang out with some friends and they got drunks. They became so annoying after that. Luckily there was no trouble at all.


p/s: I kind of notice, I often seems to talk about something else when indeed i want to write something that related to my topics. I don’t think I deliver my point. Oh well, its for my own satisfaction. Who reads this anyways,right.. 

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Lesson 2 : Is life really like a wheel??

'Don't give up, life is like a wheel, it will keep rotating. Sometime you goes up, and sometime you goes down.'This phrase is actually true, but not for those who are not moving.

the wheel is a round object. so it is easier for them to move. different from us, we are not completely round, so to move, it is a little hard (for me??)

what do the people means when they say this quote is, you need to keep on moving. if you're not moving,you will be down forever.

this wheels on the ground.not moving


the things is, i really like this quote. because somehow, its tell me to keep on moving, to see how things will go for you once you up there. its funny because maybe some people things, if they just sits there and doing nothing, they will go up. even the wheel wont move if you don't start to move it.

but still, changes takes time. if u try to change so drastically, u might won't be able to stand the changes u made. if somehow u made it,congrats to u. cause Gods has made it that everything will work on His order. if u ever try to skip that order, u will never make it. thats why i think changes should be taken slowly,but steady.

try to think of a building. how many days,weeks, months or even year they took to finish it. but to destroy the building, how many seconds did they spend to take it down.

picture credit to flickr

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Lesson 1 : Just be Yourself ?

to think that i have the mood to write about something again,thats just not me. i mean , i'm not so into writing and yet, here am i, doing something that is not me.

lot of us may have heard this phrase,"Just be yourself",but how many of us really take those words into practice. did i? i don't know. what that suppose to mean(or means?,a bit confuse about this words). is it wrong to be someone else. to have someone that u want to follow,as ur guideline. meh, i don't think so.

Meh,dont be..


i have lived for about, 20++ like that, and still i'm kind of confuse of who am i. i means(or mean),its not that i'm not myself,but is it really i am suppose to be. be myself??even if thats means(and again) i'm just a man thats is afraid to take the risks and just letting go of something ( maybe someone) because of i think i don't deserve it..
no right..

what i really mean (i better check later) is, if u think urself is just some crappy guy who never did anything right, then please,by any means, don't be urself. what u should do is change urself to some awesome cool guy, like me  
and than it is okay to be urself..

God has given you one face, and you make yourself another.  ~William Shakespeare